READ EXODUS 18
We all enjoy feeling valued and essential to others. Whether you are a parent assisting your children with tying shoes, a friend sought for advice, or a boss with all the answers, it is gratifying to be in demand. However, this constant need to be in demand can sometimes result in a feeling of pride. We derive too much self-worth from being indispensable to others.
The Israelites heavily relied on Moses. They lined up to seek his advice and guidance, spending hours waiting for his help and judgments. Moses was seen as the sole source of wisdom for the people, especially in regard to God's laws and instructions. Moses, having led them out of bondage and guided them through the Red Sea, carried a heavy burden of responsibility.
However, his father-in-law, Jethro, confronted him, pointing out that trying to do everything on his own was not beneficial. Like Moses, we often succumb to the temptation of wanting to be indispensable and trying to handle everything ourselves, which ultimately exhausts us and leaves others unfulfilled.
Moses took Jethro's advice and appointed capable individuals to assist him in leading the people. Delegating tasks and sharing responsibilities relieved Moses of his burdens and made the people content. This lesson can be seen in the New Testament too, as the disciples distributed their workload among others, resulting in the growth of the Word of God and the making of new followers. By sharing responsibilities and involving others, the disciples spread the gospel and strengthened the community.
Consider areas in your own life where you feel constantly needed. Instead of seeking validation from always being indispensable, consider following Moses's example by building a team and involving others in the tasks at hand.
QUESTIONS
1. Summarize how Exodus depicts the individuals chosen by Moses to assist him with his duties.
2. Do you have friends or family who will tell you when you're wrong? How can you create a more receptive environment for receiving feedback and advice from others?
3. What is the appeal of feeling indispensable to others? Is this sinful to feel indispensible?