READ 1 SAMUEL 20
GO DEEPER
In this chapter, we witness one of the most heart-wrenching scenes in David's life. Despite being blameless, particularly toward Saul at the time, David is unjustly targeted due to Saul's jealousy. What makes this situation significant and exceptional? David not only was innocent of any wrongdoing deserving of death, but he also held a prominent position as one of Saul's top men, the future king, and was even part of Saul's own family! David led Saul's army, was married to Saul's daughter Michal, and was close friends with Saul's son Jonathan. The chapter reveals that David not only shared meals with them but also lived life alongside them. This persecution wasn't just from an unknown ruler but rather from within a family unit.
This episode forms the backdrop for one of the most intriguing and impactful relationships in the Bible: the deep, covenantal friendship between David and Jonathan. Their bond was so profound that Jonathan jeopardized his safety to ensure David's well-being in Saul's court. Even when it became too risky for David to return, Jonathan did not prioritize his interests. Instead, verse 34 reveals that Jonathan was distressed by his father's unjust treatment of David. This highlights the remarkable level of love shared between these brothers-in-law, as Jonathan, who had just been targeted with a spear by his father, was more troubled by David's mistreatment.
David and Jonathan engage in a significant and touching interaction the following day. It marks the peak of their friendship, their brotherhood. Despite their sorrow, the deep connection between these mature men allowed them to stand together and share their tears. After gathering himself, Jonathan recalls the strong bond they had, acknowledging that even if their reunion is their final meeting, it is acceptable. Throughout the chapter, Jonathan hints at the idea of their descendants being united in the Lord, similar to their fraternal bond, suggesting his readiness to sacrifice himself for David to become king, as seen when Jonathan renounced his claim to the throne in 1 Samuel 18.
In the story of David and Jonathan, we witness a genuine biblical friendship that exemplifies the concept of treating others with the same care and respect you have for yourself. Their relationship serves as a poignant illustration of how Christians are called to mirror Christ's love by sacrificially loving others, even unto death.
QUESTIONS
1. Consider a moment when someone showed you sacrificial love. How was it demonstrated, and how did it impact you?
2. Identify someone in your life currently who you can wholeheartedly love in the same way. Keep it simple, start with one person, and begin showing that love now.
3. How can we strive to make this kind of love a standard practice in our homes, schools, workplaces, places of worship, and beyond?