READ 2 SAMUEL 18
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Chapter 18 starts with David getting his soldiers ready for a confrontation with Absalom, his rebellious son who seeks to seize power in Israel. Instead of concentrating on devising a battle plan and seeking divine guidance to unify Israel as God had instructed, David seems more concerned about Absalom's welfare. He instructs his commanders in verse 5 to handle Absalom with care, saying, "Deal gently for my sake with the young man, . . ."
Absalom, a self-absorbed superstar, prioritized his fame over God's glory, leading to turmoil in Israel. David's request for leniency toward him appears to stem more from a guilty father seeking forgiveness from his son than from a wise leader caring for his people. As David neglects his responsibilities, he ends up losing the respect of his followers.
After the soldiers defeat Absalom (not gently!) in battle and send messengers to inform the king, David's immediate concern is not for his loyal subjects fighting for Israel, but for Absalom himself. Rather than celebrating the victory and God's protection, David is overwhelmed with grief at the news of Absalom's death. He even expresses a desire to trade places with his rebellious son and wishes for his death.
David, who is known as a man with a heart like God's, is more focused on his personal distress in this scenario rather than on fulfilling God's wishes. How often do we become preoccupied with our concerns, dedicating our time, effort, and focus to things that pertain to our desires rather than God's plans? While these pursuits may not be inherently negative, they can become stumbling blocks when we prioritize them above God's will in our lives. Whether it be relationships, work, gaming, sports, or even family, these are not inherently harmful. However, it is crucial to not let them dominate our thoughts and focus to the extent that they overshadow God's goodness.
David cried out, " . . . O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!" Later, Jesus on the cross would cry out, "My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? (Matthew 27:46). David was ready to sacrifice both God's plan and his own life to rescue his son, while God was prepared to sacrifice His own Son to carry out His plan to save our lives.
QUESTIONS
1. Is there anything in your life that you prioritize more than following God's commandments?
2. Will you be willing to let go of distractions that consume your time and thoughts so you can redirect your focus towards God?
3. Joab, David's commander, noticed David's distraction and went against his orders. Who do you allow in your life to lovingly challenge you and question your intentions? Pray for humility to accept truth when it is spoken to you. If you do not have someone to speak truth in love to you, ask God to bring such a person into your life.