READ 2 SAMUEL 19
GO DEEPER
This chapter features two distinct parts that illustrate the consequences of prioritizing our emotions and desires. At the beginning of the chapter, David's army achieves a significant victory and saves the king's life. Despite this crucial win, David reacts selfishly by mourning the death of his son, Absalom, instead of appreciating the efforts of his soldiers. Rather than acknowledging the heroism of his army, David focuses on his grief, even though Absalom had plotted against him. This self-centered behavior demonstrates poor leadership, as David places his personal needs above those of his people, risking their loyalty and support in the process.
Secondly, this triumph in battle reveals the individuals who opted to support Absalom over David. These individuals endorsed a new ruler due to his youth, charisma, and promises of a better future. Their decision was based on self-interest, prioritizing their desires. However, now that they have defeated their chosen leader, their self-serving choice has brought them disgrace. Instead of staying loyal to their true king, they turned to another for protection and encountered peril in the process. It is only after the failure of the false king, Absalom, that they show a desire to have David restored. Similarly, we often turn to reinstating King Jesus once our false idols disappoint.
When we only prioritize our interests, things usually don't turn out well in the end. We may end up hurting those around us like David, or we may rely on the wrong things when trying to take matters into our hands. Instead, the biblical message urges us to deny ourselves, carry our cross, and follow Jesus. We are called to prioritize Him as the ruler of our lives, placing Him above our feelings and wants. Living as God's servants enables us to uplift others and receive protection, even in seemingly illogical situations. Today, let's choose to serve the right King, avoiding the shame of choosing the wrong path like Absalom's followers. However, if we have been serving a misguided ruler, God is ready to welcome us back, just as David did with his adversaries.
QUESTIONS
1. How might the outcome of this chapter have changed if Joab did not bravely confront David?
2. What were David's correct actions in this chapter?
3. Can you recall a time when you chose the wrong leader? How do you think God would respond when you ask for forgiveness?